When intention and action don’t align - Hey U Human

When intention and action don’t align

Melissa Mellor | December 30, 2022

As I have been watching social media lately, I am filled with a TON of emotions.

Between coaching industry DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA, Twitch Boss suicide, and getting ready for Christmas, there just seems to be A LOT going on.

It wasn’t that long ago that all ‘this stuff’ would have my mind spiraling…

Spending tons of money

Never feeling like there is enough time

Feeling like I am dropping the ball somewhere

Feeling guilty for all I have

Feeling guilty for not doing enough

I keep reading these posts around mindset and choices and ‘asking for help’ and acceptance… And honestly, that is a HECK of a lot easier to WRITE OUT than put into action.

It’s way easier said that done.

Because when push comes to shove, most of us are looking around wondering how to ACTUALLY do the thing we want to do. It feels like work, it’s unnatural, and it sets us up for failure.

In some ways, it’s frustrating. I know that the bridge between thoughts and actions are OUR EMOTIONS.

And I really feel that Hey U Human is the answer to understanding emotions the right way (and using that to create the life you desire to live).

But then I see the WHOLE WIDE WORLD hurting and filled with the holiday season overwhelm, and it makes me want to remind ALL OF HUMANITY that you are enough just as you are!

It’s ok to be a work in progress and perfectly complete at the same time

It’s ok to want to have more while also being grateful for where you are today

It’s ok to feel loneliness while also knowing you are loved

It’s OK to be distracted when trying to be present

The world isn’t as black and white as we think it is.

It’s rarely one or the other.

Always remember that we are FULLY CAPABLE of being both. And that as humans, we are always growing and expanding. This means there will always be periods of awkwardness.

Just know that YOU are perfect and also deserving of more than your heart desires. Hold on to THAT.

If you are inside the online coaching space at all, you may have seen some of the ‘calling out’ happening over the last weeks.

There is A LOT to be said about what’s going on. And many people are SPEAKING UP and calling out. Not many are providing a course of action for change.

The reality is that it has left a ton of smart and successful online entrepreneurs feeling lost, embarrassed, guilty, and very discouraged on how to run their business.


My CEO, Melissa, and I have gone through all the ups and downs of this realization, learned a ton of lessons the hard way, and healed MANY emotions that have occurred because of being inside the online coaching space.

And we want to share our experience with ya’ll. So, we hosted a powerful free open forum conversation on ALL THINGS coaching.
(click to catch the replay)

It was so powerful to be in that conversation with you all for 2.5 hours.

So open and honest. Nothing off limits including our mistakes and hard lessons as a result of pivoting out of coaching.

While so many people are capitalizing on this ‘drama’, we want to unite the people who desire change.

No sales pitch. No gimmicks. No offer.

Just an opportunity to connect, share, learn and create a real difference in the industry.

Click the link below to watch the replay.

As someone who was once deep inside the coaching space, I know how lonely it can feel at times. It felt so good to connect with you all and realize that we are NEVER ALONE in this process.

For those of you who couldn’t join us live, or would like to re-watch, please catch all the details using the link below.


Next Steps:

Join the Hey U Human CommUnity for free! Connect, learn and become a part of something truly different in the world.

Learn Rapid Relief Technique™ for free and start breaking this process down inside your own life.

Book a 1:1 session with a Certified Human Developer and see how quickly you can see results with this method.

Or the best possible step, join the Happy Human Membership (only $97/month) and start proactively healing yourself from the inside out. Get off the mental health hampster wheel and find emotional freedom for once and for all!